My Dear Friend,

Remember, deep breath in, deep breath out. I have read this woman's weak arguements and bouts of jealous rage. It's insane. It really is, quite frankly I'm not sure what brought this on. You know well as I do- there are some people in this world who feel the need to waste countless energy behind trying to fruitlessly bring down someone else's spirit in the vain attempts to build up their own existence. But it's time to ignore this mad woman or better yet the "hooker" (which you eloquently called her.) Let her prostitute her thoughts to who-so-ever wishes to lend her an ear. Cause if they are lending her an ear, then that is one ear you certainly don't need.

You are right, she has no business taking the pulpit to view her opinion on the choices you are making for your life...she has no business voicing her opinion (w/o even having the grace or decency to meet you for even a cup of coffee) about your life. No one is perfect, no one has the right to pass judgment on another. For her to take action against someone she only wished she knew is just down right...pathetic.

You are above this. I applaud you and the choices that you have made in your life. You have taken a high road in a situation where many others would have ended the journey. Let this woman and her opinions go where they will. Trust me, it won't be that far.

It's funny you see, it's funny that it takes more energy to pour such hatred on someone else (as she does to you) imagine if she took that same energy and actually did something constructive with it. She would find herself in a much better place.

My friend, she deserves your pity. She deserves all of our pity. I laugh. I really do. Don't let her negativity invade your space. Write nothing more about her, she doesn't deserve the space on your blog. If she feels the need to continue her bashing and claims of having a stalker, then let her fulfill her fancy. It won't go far.

Is this the kind of behavior that give beautiful and strong Indian women, like ourselves, a bad name-when one of our sisters lashes out in such vulgar behavior? Yes. You replied in anger, as any of us would...now leave this b'tch where she is and eventually she will disappear.

We've got your back. Always had, always will.

Your sister from another mother. And father. ;)

Thank you :-) I know better, I am better, I'm just angry.

This woman shows a clear lack of wisdom and grace on her blog. Perhaps she should contemplate, observe and grow her inner being before casting aspersions and judgement on someone else.
Life presents numerous lessons and one makes choices that seem right at the time - we live, we learn and we grow. Keep smiling, stay strong and beautiful.

Thank you. I'm upset that it rattled me. It's unsettling to think that someone who I have nothing to do with, have never met would come out swinging at me so shamelessly for no reason whatsoever. It makes me simply more grateful that the rest of the world isn't like this. I appreciate your kind words.